Black sheep of the Family?!

Anyone else feel the same?! not that I don't want to help, but because I'm drawn to helping , it easy for us empaths, healers, etc to be drained quickly, by those who arent yet able to or don't want to help themselves in and out of life's tough situations. This last year has been big for me, learning to post healthy boundaries with friends and family. I have felt more balance in my energy, have found time to discover and rediscover hobbies and interests and most of all learned how to overcome the misplaced and inappropriate guilt, that I felt when I would say no or take time for me... Self love should be unconditional. Never feel as if you should have to explain to someone else why you need time for yourself !!! Self love is healing, self love produces copious amounts of love for others. Namaste friends I love you all